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__A Christian Surrogate Mother__. 1996-2008 All Rights Reserved. 11/18/2008 . Favoring Surrogate Mothers
 * 1) Jesus was about sacrifice
 * 2) Its giving life not taking it away
 * 3) Mary was a surrogate mother.
 * 4) It's a gift
 * 5) No biblical foundation not supporting surrogate children
 * 6) Each life is planned no matter the circumstance
 * 7) There's nothing wrong with helping someone who is unable to have a child have one.
 * 8) It shouldn't be anyone elses choice how people decide to have a family.
 * 9) God decides all so if its happening it's not wrong
 * 10) You are a selflessness person if you choice to be the surrogate mother
 * 11) Jesus was a surrogate child
 * 12) People belive that if god is leading you to do it weither in there eyes its right or wrong, then you should follow full heartedly the direction your being lead
 * 13) God made people intellegent enough to come up with this process why would it be bad?

Against Surrogate Mothers In the middle
 * 1) You don't own your own body, its not yours to do with it as you want, but what god wants
 * 2) Some believe that surrogacy causes fornication between the surrogate mother.
 * 3) Mary didn't have a choice she was chosen.
 * 4) People think its wrong because your paying for the process
 * 5) Its illegal to sell kids why should this be any different
 * 6) Its a sinful act of adultry
 * 7) The child wouldn't biologically be yours
 * 8) Adoption is a better choice, your helping a child who was already brought into this world have a better life
 * 9) Dont play god
 * 10) If god wanted them to have children they would be able to
 * 11) You should only have children throuhg normal means
 * 12) Your sperm and eggs shouldnt be sold
 * 13) Marry didnt choose to be a surrogant
 * 14) Mary didn't pay for her child
 * 15) Mary didn't didnt have the option of helping another couple out there was never another couple in the equation
 * 1) No one knows if its right or wrong bibically
 * 2) Know the risks and laws before taking on the task, it is not for everyone

Aigen, Betsy. __MOTIVATIONS OF SURROGATE MOTHERS__. 1996 The American Surrogacy Center. 11/18/2008 http://www.surrogacy.com/psychres/article/motivat.html. Rejected people to surrogacy Surrogate Mothers Interveiws
 * 1) Accepted
 * 2) Positive emotional experience who feel they would gain from helping others
 * 3) High frustration tolerence and ego strength
 * 4) People choose to follow the physical and emotional demands
 * 5) Hisotry of positive pregnancy
 * 6) Positive relationships with their own children if any
 * 7) Supportive home environment (adaquet environment)
 * 1) Expression of conflict over the responsibility required
 * 2) Uncertanty over their comfortability level
 * 3) Anxious about social critisim
 * 4) Overly motivated by the money
 * 5) Experiencing to much difficulty inthe surrendering the baby
 * 6) Likely to suffer servere loss reaction
 * 7) If in the middle of a life crisis such as divorce, death, idenity cisis, etc
 * 8) People trying to use the role as a way to deal with a tramatic situation given to them in life.
 * 9) Anyone that might show signs of changing their mind a lot
 * 10) Bad emotional condition( depressed, immature, unstable, etc.
 * 11) Judged as dishonest and untrustworthy
 * 12) Not a stable invironment
 * 1) 90 min each
 * 2) Emotional health test
 * 3) Questions about their life, past, future, qualities
 * 4) Doctors have to write a summary of the participants who give them interviews
 * 5) Have to stay on list for atleast 3 years
 * 6) Ask them about there feelings and stability
 * 7) They ask about there medical history and there childhood

Method
 * 1) Infertile or physically incapable of carrying or developing fetus.
 * 2) Woman that choose to be surrogate mothers usually social underclass
 * 3) This is perceived as making them vulnerable to being exploited by reproductiviely prostituting themselves.
 * 4) Surrogate mothers are assumed to suffer troumatic experience from losing their child.
 * 5) Choosing to have a baby for someone else is reprehensible, represents irejection

__Be a Surrogate Mother__. 2004-2008 Robot co-op. 11/18/2008 .
 * 1) The entire process is more involved and intense then people think
 * 2) Counseling evaluations for everyone, physical exams, shots, pills, agreements to abstain from sex, and a huge legal side on top of it all
 * 3) Even if people agree lawyers go over every tiny detail to make you fully aware of what your getting yourself into.
 * 4) Dont be a surrogate if you arent entirely comfortable with the other person or people your doing this with
 * 5) Be firm with what you want and expect
 * 6) But be flexible and prepared for all the " what ifs"
 * 7) Get good explanations from the doctors and the other medical staff
 * 8) Progesterone gel is preferable to the shots ( it is more expensive)
 * 9) The shots you get in your legs at first arent as intense and the ones you get down the road in your back
 * 10) Surrogacy is illegal in Michigan, Washington, New York, New Mexico, and Arizonia
 * 11) People sometimes winde up hurting themselves due to depriving themselves of every day routines such as medicines they take everyday.
 * 12) Make sure you establish a good relationsip
 * 13) Some individuals want to help people because of there problem or cituation, others want to help them and just like to be pregnant as well

__Become a Surrogate Mom__. 2008 Surrogate mother, agency, pay for surrogate mothers, become a surrogate mother. 11/18/2008 .
 * 1) You have a lot of things to go threw before even being excepted to get or be a surrogate mother
 * 2) The match for couple isnt choosen by a list, its choosen but the personality
 * 3) Not everyone is excepted
 * 4) The mother to be and the carrier mother both have vital roles through the pregnancy
 * 5) You both have to go threw a screening test to assure your right for surrogacy
 * 6) Backround checks are required as well
 * 7) An attorney is met to make sure your insurence will cover the pregnancy requirments
 * 8) If you dont have medical insurence you cannot apply
 * 9) Carrier mother will be fertile screened and asked to monitor menstral cycle
 * 10) They match the " couples" up by the screening tests
 * 11) Mother to be will then look over the choice made for her and decide whether they want that carrier or not
 * 12) Then choosen a metting is set up betwen both couples
 * 13) Theyre will be a counselor present during the first meeting
 * 14) If agreed to be together a contract will be made.
 * 15) 2 different choices: artifical insemination or vitro fertilization
 * 16) The carrier get to tell the Mother to be when she becomes pregnanat
 * 17) Suggest you keep in contact with mother to be once every 2 weeks through pregnancy
 * 18) You could also go the the doctor visits together
 * 19) Carriers will not be help responsible for changing diapers or feeding after birth
 * 20) Surrogate mothers get pain generously
 * 21) Some surrogate mothes stay close to the family years throughout
 * 22) The matching process cannot be rushed
 * 23) Both couple get physically and metally tested
 * 24) They payment to the surrogate mother is held in a trust through the pregnancy

Jones, Joanna. __Becomming a Surrogant__. Sept 28, 2008 Suite 101. 11/21/2008 .

Reasons for surrogacy Requirements
 * 1) No wombs
 * 2) Traditional IVF impossible
 * 3) Abnormally formed womb
 * 4) Health conditions such as heart problems
 * 5) No success from IVF
 * 6) People want to try any possible way to have their own biological child before adaption
 * 7) Straight- surrogate mother uses her own egg which is then fertilized with the infertile womens husbands sperm
 * 8) Can be done with home kit
 * 9) Host- intended mothers eggs and husbands sperm are used to impregnate the surrogate
 * 10) Child would be biologically related to mother and is done at IVF clinic
 * 11) Woman who have had a hysterectomy
 * 12) Woman with Ashermans syndrom or antoher condition where they cant implant into the womb
 * 13) Dangerouse or life threatening conditions to where they cant go through delivery
 * 1) You have at least one child and have preferably finished having your family
 * 2) You are under 36
 * 3) Good health
 * 4) No genetically or infectous dieseases
 * 5) Good emotional health or depression
 * 6) Your immune to Rubella
 * 7) You arent payed for having the baby your payed for the time off of work, vitamins, clothes, doctors bills etc.

__How Many Kids Get Abused in The U.S__. 2008 Wiki Answers. 11/20/2008 . How many kids get abused in the U.S
 * 1) Over 30,000 reports of child abuse and neglect a year
 * 2) Child protective services recieved 2 million reports of alleged child abuse and neglect
 * 3) 3 million children were reported as alleged victims of abse
 * 4) 44 stated provided data due to race- 55% of all victims were white 27% were African American 2% were Native American 1 % Hispanic and 1% Asian and 3% were unknown
 * 5) Data from 49 states avuse rate of 15 victims per 1,000 children under the age of 18
 * 6) Those 49 states also reported 523,049 victims were nelected, 244,903 were physically abused 126,095 victims were sexually abused and 44,648 were emotionally abused
 * 7) Femals were more often identified as the perpertrators then the males
 * 8) Common age for males preditors was 37 years old
 * 9) Femal preditos average age was 34

Clendenin, Jay. __How Surrogacy Works__. 1998-2008 How Stuff Works. 11/20/2008 .

How Surrogacy Works
 * 1) Infertility affects more than 7 million people int he U.S
 * 2) 12% of woman of childbearing age are considered infertile
 * 3) 3% of cases require more advanced techniques such as donor insemination
 * 4) In 2002, the number of surrogate births were around 550
 * 5) There are about 100-150 births that occur annually in India

__INFERTILITY INCREASES IN YOUNG WOMEN__. Febuay 10 1983 The New York Tims. 11/20/2008 .
 * 1) More than 3 million married American woman say they want to have kids but are physically unable to concieve
 * 2) A study document marked increase of younger couple who are medically unable to have children
 * 3) Rise may reult from the increasing case of sterility- causeing diseases
 * 4) In 1976 study concluded 45% of nations nearly 27.5 million couple have been unable to have children or had difficulty in conceiving 19% were sterilized for a reason 10% were sterilized for medical reasons 16% weer unable to have children for other reasons
 * 5) One reason that causes sterility is Gonnorhea another reason is woman using intrauterin birth control and pelvic inflammatory disease

__Woman and Surrogacy__. 2007 Coron Institue. 11/20/2005 .
 * 1) In 2002 12 % of woman age 15-44 or 7.3 million woman had a physically difficulty getting pregnant
 * 2) Thie represents a 2 % increase from 1988 and 1995
 * 3) Surrogacy had doubled from 1997-2000 and reached 548 in 2002
 * 4) Doctors see about 35 to 40 new people a month
 * 5) About 30 % of the couples need third pary reproduction
 * 6) 80 percent use egg donors and 20 % use surrogacy

Nourian, Mory. __Frequently Asked Question__. May 1, 2006 USA gov. 11/20/2008 .
 * 1) About 12% of women 7.3 million in the United States aged 15-44 have difficulty getting pregnant on carrying full term
 * 2) Lifertility isnt always womans problem
 * 3) About 1/3 of cases are female related
 * 4) About 1/3 of case are a micture of male and femal factors
 * 5) Infertility in males mostly cause by low sperm producing few or non at all
 * 6) Another problem is sperm reaching the egg
 * 7) Abnormale sperm shape of structure
 * 8) Sometimes a man is born with problems that affect his sperm
 * 9) Increasing mans risk of infertility- alchohol, drugs, environmental toxins, including pesticides and lead
 * 10) Smoking ciggarettes
 * 11) Health problems
 * 12) Medicines, age
 * 13) Radiation treatment and chemothrapy for cancer
 * 14) Infertility in a woman ovulation-with out it eggs to be fertilized
 * 15) SIgns that woman isnt ovulating normally include irregular or absent menstral periods
 * 16) Blocked fallopian tubes due to pelvic disease
 * 17) Physical problems with the uterus
 * 18) Uterince fibroids
 * 19) Things that can effect womans ability to have a baby
 * 20) Age stress poor diet, athletic training
 * 21) Being over weight or underweight, tabacco, smoking
 * 22) Alcohol, sexually, transmitted diseases
 * 23) Health problems and hormonal change
 * 24) Age effects womans ability
 * 25) Ability of womans ovaries to release eggs ready for fertilization declines with age
 * 26) The health of womans eggs declines with age
 * 27) As woman age they have more health problems
 * 28) Risk of miscarriage increaes
 * 29) Irregular periods or no mentral periods
 * 30) Very painful periods
 * 31) Endomtriosis
 * 32) Pelvic inflammatory disease
 * 33) More then one miscarriage
 * 34) No matter how old you are its always a good idea to tak to a doctor
 * 35) Record changes happening to your body
 * 36) Record texture of her cervical mucus
 * 37) Use home evaluation test kit